10:1 female to males If you have a large colony. If your colony size is smaller, you might want to go with a smaller ratio, like 5:1 just in case you get some die offs.
Tote with holes in top (larger the better, 18 gal plus) yes
Egg thingys yes
Heat source, between 80-90 yes
Humidity around 65% (is higher better? Is there a such thing as to high?)you don't need to worry about humidity unless you are out in an arid desert. The water gels will also help raise the humidity.
Feeding oranges, apples, dog food? (There was a post asking about the effect of dog food on beardies that no one answered. What about bread? Other food? Does the food need to have calcium added to it?)You can basically feed anything you want. I wouldn't feed anything that is toxic to dragons though. Dog food is an important part of roach chow (or cat food) because it provides the protein in the diet. You don't need to add calcium. I dont.
Water crystals. (Are the ones they sell for crickets ok?)I'm not sure which ones for crickets your talking about, but basically any water gel will work. I would be weary of those "fortified" water gels, the kinds with calcium and stuff in them.
Questions along with the above ones,
Should males and females be in sep totes till breeding is wanted and then move males into tote or is leaving them all together better? Leaving them together is better. They are colony bugs.
How long should babies stay in tote to feed off poo (EWWWWW) before being moved into a feeder bin? You can seperate them whenever you want. You don't have to wait for them to eat poo, they can eat normal stuff.
How long should we wait before feeding the babies to our beardies? (We dont have them yet, learning) I would wait until the colony is up and running, or else you might overfeed and your colony won't be able to keep up.
Was thinking of giving the bugs a 3 month head start before getting the beardie, that ok? yes, that is best!
Are these creepy bugs a good starter/staple for young dragons? Absolutly. They can be a forever staple if you choose. You are breeding them so you have all the sizes.
How well would beardies move from crickets to these bugs? Fine.
Anything else I should know? Uh... I don't think so lol.