SukiLove
Juvie Member
You say that they are 3 years old, have you weighed and measured them? If they were both in a 40 gallon tank for the full 3 years, and as you have admitted not on the proper calcium/supplement support, I can't imagine that they are very big. From the first pic you posted, she definitely looks smaller than him but it could be the angle.
I would keep them separated from now on as well, especially so she has the best chance on getting healthy again.
I would keep them separated from now on as well, especially so she has the best chance on getting healthy again.