Sometimes, Tempy will just want to hang out in her viv, but I found the best time to take them out to get them to be used to snuggling is just a few minutes before their lights out time, their so used to settling down and going to sleep, that their usually their calmest at that point. Have just a dim light, and a very soft sweater or blanket on yourself, and hold them in your hand, or place them on your shoulder, they looooove to be tucked in, i keep her under my fleece robe, she loves it. :] Or, try having a heating pad underneath your shirt, lay down, and place them on your tummy. :] Temperance loooooves to snuggle, she always lets me know when she wants to, she will start trying to climb out of her viv, or wave at me when i come in the room. <3