Update. Not a good update, but an update.
I'm not able to drive myself to bring Pancake to the vet, so my parents unfortunately also have to be willing. My mom insisted I try to get a "virtual appointment" so she doesn't have to drive an hour "for nothing" despite there being something obviously wrong.
My mom called the vet a while back and was told I could send a very detailed email with pictures to the vet and get a phone call back, so she insisted I do that so she didn't have to drive me. (Which is ridiculous, since we physically need to be there for treatment anyway.) It's been days and I never received a call back, as I expected.
Well guess what? I just woke up to find her arm is twitching and I haven't even touched it.
NOW my mom is finally willing to take me. So I'll have an actual update later. I called the vet and they are only taking drop-offs so I'll have to leave her there and get a phone call later. And of course the receptionist talked to me like I was stupid for trying to get a virtual appointment. Thank you all for the advice. I'll be back to let you all know what's going on. I just hope we didn't wait too long. I'm so distraught over this.
I know what that’s like having to drop one off for treatment and having to wait and hope things are ok but if it’s any comfort she’s at the vets now so if there is anything happening she’s in the best place for treatment.
It’s also good you have this thread and your photos as documentation of the patch on her arm and how it’s behaving.
Hoping you get good news but not cool about your mother not wanting to really help you get her to see a vet in person. Bearded dragons are an animal that tends to hide any issues which means that it is important to have any abnormalities checked out ASAP and to regularly give them a full look over.
When I first got my two rescues it was explained to me that regularly checking them and getting to know what’s normal for them in both appearance and behaviour is an important part of their care because since they’re good at hiding any issues usually by the time it becomes undeniably clear somethings wrong the problems been ongoing for a while.
Yes vet appointments for reptiles are expensive but take it from me it’s a WHOLE LOT more expensive if you don’t get to an issue sooner rather than later so maybe that’s something you could talk about with your mother so if there’s anything that pops up in the future she might better understand why it’s important to physically see a vet over concerning abnormalities like this patch on your girls arm.
Again I’m hoping everything goes well for you and your dragon