Kami for your toe, it takes about 6 weeks for new bone growth to heal the break in it. Be patient, it just broke a couple days ago. Ice it for pain 20 min.'s, also for any swelling. It's probably pretty bruised also so that adds to the pain in it. Keep it elevated as much as you can, propped on pillows, that too, will ease the pain some.
I've only been around one autistic child in my lifetime and he was violent. Not only to himself but, to those around him. He finally was put into Charter Hospital. The Dr.'s really helped him with the right meds and therapy so he could control his anger. I can kind of understand the jumbled thoughts and how difficult it can be to properly express them. Its good you have a system like you do with your notebook/pad. What I am trying to say is not to give up on helping, just read the question, write out your answer, then put it to the forum. You do fine as far as I am concerned. Remember forums are like a social media, some are going to understand and appreciate your efforts, others that don't or refuse, aren't what you need around you. Ignore the rude comments. Just be yourself, you are very likable!