I hate to admit it, but I'm pretty wimpy myself when it comes to horror movies. Dr Who is about all the "horror" that I can stand, and only because it's mixed in with lots of science fiction, magic, and time travel -- I find time travel especially intriguing. :mrgreen:
I haven't seen any of the chainsaw massacre movies, but if I did, I'd probably react pretty much the same way that Victor did -- except that I wouldn't even be able to run up the stairs, let alone fly. :lol: I'd have to find somewhere else to hide.
My husband has tested as somewhat hard of hearing but our current "health insurance" (such as it is) won't pay for hearing aids. Meanwhile, the volume on the TV has to be uncomfortably loud for me in order for him to be able to hear it, so we compromise as best we can. Luckily, loud noises don't seem to bother Puff as long as he's in familiar surroundings.
It sounds like Ash is not suffering so Tom may be right about letting her spend whatever time she has left in peace. Sometimes it's not worth it to use "heroic measures" with elderly animals (or people, for that matter) just to keep them alive for a little longer, especially if it's going to cause them unnecessary pain and/or stress. It kind of reminds me of my father in law -- he was in "hospice care" for the last couple of years of his life. They knew he was dying, so they were just trying to keep him comfortable, but not trying to do anything drastic to keep him alive. So you do what you can to make their life as pleasant as possible and help them enjoy whatever time they have left, but sometimes it is best to just let nature take its course.
It also sounds like all your beardies are at nice healthy sizes and weights. I don't think a 20-odd gram loss over winter brumation is anything to worry about -- heck, they can lose that much after a big poop. Kane is a big one -- if I remember correctly, I think you said he's a German Giant.
I haven't measured lately, but Puff is on the small side. I don't think his length is any more than 18 inches. We don't weigh him on a regular basis at home -- we have a little scale but I don't think it's really accurate enough. His annual exam is due next month so he'll get weighed at the vet's. I figure he's probably somewhere around 520-540 grams.
I think we're both lucky that we have husbands who appreciate what we do, but yours has a lot more to appreciate than mine does.
So I googled columnaris -- Yikes! :shock:
No kidding -- anyone who has any feeling at all for fish would be traumatized by something like that. It sounds nightmarish. Something like that would be worse than any horror movie because it's your own critters that you care about and because it's real.
I looked up aquarium skimmers too, because I was curious. At first glance without a whole lot of in-depth reading :study: , apparently it's for removing excessive protein and/or other organic crud from the water so the tank stays cleaner. Probably a very good thing to have for your fish tanks.
I hope you can get some decent sleep when you need it. I have trouble getting regular sleep or good quality sleep too -- I seem to have too much garbage going on in my brain. I sometimes say that I don't really have a "train of thought" -- I have a bunch of little "bumper cars," but if they ever slow down and line back up into a "train," then that's about when the "locomotive runs out of steam" and slows down and stops (aka depression), but sometimes that's about the only time I can get any decent sleep, so I'm still trying to learn to do what I can when I can, and rest when I get tired. One thing that will trigger a "panic attack" (I'm not sure if that's what it is but I don't know what else to call it) for me is to start thinking about all the things I have to do that aren't getting done because I'm too tired or too depressed (or whatever) to make myself get up and do them. It goes something like this: "I HAVE to do this; I CAN'T do this; AND I CAN'T ask or allow anyone else to do this for me, and someone or something is going to suffer because of it." (For example, Puff needs to be fed, bathed, cleaned up after, etc, and I'm not up to it...) So there's no way out of that dilemma and I freak out unless I can remind myself that I really don't HAVE to do whatever it is RIGHT NOW, and that I can ask my husband for help when he gets home, and that I'll just have to live with the fact that he isn't necessarily going to do it exactly MY WAY (being a control freak doesn't help). So I think I may have the beginnings of a "coping strategy," but I can't always make it work. Fortunately I don't have to worry about not getting enough sleep at night, because I don't have a job, so I can sleep during the day if I need to (one of the many reasons I'm out of the work force for good). So instead of laying there awake worrying about not being able to get enough sleep, I just get up and do something quiet so I don't keep my husband awake, because he does need to get enough sleep so he can go to work the next day. Sometimes we get to talking and when he falls asleep while I'm still talking, I tell myself that I need to "shut up or get up" so that he can get his sleep and so that I can use whatever energy I have to do something productive. Besides, the poor guy blames himself for not being a good listener when he's dead tired.
Oooh, another TLDR. In the meantime, Puff gave up waiting for his good morning cuddle and went "downstairs" to attack his salad. :wink: