I am 8 months into my first beardie adopted from Petco at the end of January of this year as a juvenile approx 2 months old. I have not had any nightmare problems with her at all (knock on wood). My 13 yo purchased her with Christmas/birthday money. Unfortunately, one week in he realized he did not really want her so now she's mine. A beautiful gift I never knew I wanted. Lol!! She has been a delight to care for, not a major issue at all. In all honestly as a small juvenile I let her soak in a tub about 3 days a week for about 10-15 each time. Now I only
bath her maybe every two weeks. However, I do give her water via a dropper 3-4 days/week. Right or wrong I personally don't believe they need bathed daily. Mine seems to be thriving & I have never bathed her daily.
Because I work, she is fed 2x a day, 6:00 am & about 5:00 pm when I get home from work. When smaller I put her in a separate tote w/crickets for her to eat. She would consume anywhere from 20-60 each setting. On the higher end as she grew. Now she won't touch crickets & is big enough for super worms & she doesn't like being put in the tote to eat anymore. Right now I don't always supervise her eating. I put her supers in a glass bowl in her tank they can't climb out of & she can easily get to them. My Gizmo is spoiled & does prefer that I drop them on the bottom of her cage right in front of her. I only do this while I'm right there as to not leave any wandering around her tank.
She will go on food strike on occasion nothing too alarming. I think she does this to force me into dropping the food right in front of her. Mine loves being held & running free in a confined, beardie friendly place. My whirl pool tub in the master bathroom has become her safe play ground.
They're like most people they get in moods, they'll get sick & like any pet will require vet care at some point. I plan on taking mine to the vet in November which I believe she'll be a yr old. So far she's not needed to go to the vet.
Tank clean up... I used paper towels for quite a while, then moved to tile and now non adhesive shelf liner on top of my tile. Tile was too slick for my beardie to walk on is why I added it. I pick poo up with toilet paper as soon as I see it & wipe up residue with Clorox/generic wipes. Good or bad I've only done a massive remove everything from her tank cleaning maybe 5 times since February. I try to spot clean as I see problems. Not time consuming at all.
The only complaint I have is I made a lot of wrong purchases for a lack of knowledge. I've had to learn along the way before getting her lights & tank setup perfect. This was my own fault.
Don't let bad stories scare you. Yes, they are work, yes they generally do like attention & human interaction. I do not find Gizmo anymore time consuming or costly than my dogs. I've mothered 4 dogs in my lifetime & 2 cats. I would try to hold it or at least interact with it no less than 30 min a day. Mine is in a very high traffic area for me as I'm the one who takes care of her. I have her in my bedroom. She perks up & notices when I'm in the room or if the dog is up on my bed.
I would remind you to be diligent at reminding your 11 yo about hand washing every time after handling. I don't worry too much about her climbing my shirt or scurrying about on my bed, but if I'm going to prepare dinner etc I do put a clean shirt on just to be safe.
Good luck with your decision. It could be a great adventure for you & your son.
Edit: Forgot to mention, I do put greens in her tank most days but she shows little interest.