Hi all, haven't posted since last year.
This thread is making me rethink things. I have many pets(dog, cat, two red eared sliders, many tarantulas, a beardie, ball python, and a gerbil), but my parents are what you can call 'cruel' to a point. My mother is an impulse buyer(the two turtles and the ball python), but then if they get sick, always says "Its cheaper to buy another one." My dad couldn't care less. I take care of the tarantulas(they don't need a vet since theyre inverts), beardie and ball python myself, the gerbil is my brothers(he does a good job with feeding and playing with it, I just made a split cage to get it a companion to socialize with), and the dog and cat are mostly my parents' responsibility.
I don't have a very strong relationship with my family and really don't socialize often, so I find pets as a way to get away from it all and feel like someone does depend on me. I've had my dragon for a little over a year now, and I consider him in good health. I gathered his care info from this site, but have been lurking here for the past couple of days in order to make the bond with him stronger. I will straight up admit that I didn't give him the most attention for the last few months, but I'm determined to make this change, I'm moving him to my room soon and am redoing his cage so he has more fun in it(I'm working on a platform...).
My parents have never let me go to the vet for one of my reptiles, its like the dog and cat really matter more than anything else. This thread is making me realize that I should probably downsize my "collection" and give more attention to the animals I actually can give proper care for. I'm going to ask my parents if I can get a new home for our ball python. I think it should be the first to get a better home because I find it difficult to manage its feeding(even if it is once a week) and humidity/temps by myself, I get no help from anyone. My mother bought this snake, thought she knew everything about it from the petsmart
caresheet, and then after I gave her a mini lecture of how actually difficult they are to take care of, she immediately lost interest in it and dumped its care on me. Ugh...
Sorry for the rant, I haven't been in a good mood today, and my parents always make me angry about my pet situation. They just buybuybuy and never think beforehand....then complain about the bills.