bunnyrut":204gi1lz said:
When i read the first post my reaction was "what?"
but the follow up response would have been questions like "who was watching her while you were away?"
anyone who attacks a person here without gathering all the information or asking questions needs to stop posting immediately. it really makes you sound like an unintelligent 12 year old. granted some of you may be 12, please learn from this and always do research before forming an opinion.
Reptar i am really sorry about Puff, and i am sure there is some self-blame going on there. i know i would beat myself up if anything happened to my babies. this community is supposed to be for support and i am sorry some people didn't give that.
One of the parts of my post that was deleted was me asking if Reptar101 was a child or an adult so we would know how to proceed, and I also wanted to know what happened, since he didn't give us any information, just that she died from not being fed. I never attacked him, I didn't call him names, either.
His thread from 2010 is just a few pages long, and he said that he kept them together in the same tank, male and female. A few members came on and advised that he separate them, and he didn't want to separate them. So I did research, and I asked some basic questions. After he answered and gave the 'Grandma didn't feed them' information, then people came on with sympathy. It's really easy to come into a thread later, after all the facts are laid out, and call us earlier posters out, but had you been here and read the very first post you may have been as shocked as the rest of us and your response may have been different.
I don't normally come onto this forum and call people out, and I feel that I try very hard to be helpful and positive, but it appeared that we had someone who never cared to separate his dragon back in 2010, and then a very short 'she died' and I can't help but ask the questions that I asked in my deleted post. I tried to gather information and I wasn't trying to be unkind.