punkrockprincess
Hatchling Member
Hi again everyone,
I have been posting here and there random little questions and what-not as I am a new Beardie owner. I decided I would address the topic that I have been putting off addressing because this one makes me feel like a really bad Beardie owner. But first I have to give some background so this all makes sense to everyone as to why I am stuck in this particularly bad situation. This is a extremely long post but I can’t think of any other way to explain how it got to this.
Before I discovered the amazing careguides and helpful knowledgeable people on this board I only had the books my store sold about Beardies to go on and some very misinforming websites. Looking back I see how outdated and just generally craptastic these books were but at the time I considered them my bible. One book even said that it was best to get two beardies it said something of the likes of "beardies show social deprivation if housed alone many will try to communicate with their owners with behaviours such as head bobbing and arm waving". I thought that was awful sad and thought to myself "they must be like Guniea Pigs then, they do poorly and get socially deprived when housed alone". During the two months I spent basically memorizing these stupid books I was buying slowly stockpiling stuff for the new Beardies I planned to buy and sharing everything I was learning with my boyfriend. I told him we just HAD TO HAVE TWO BEARDIES; I kept getting flashbacks of this Guniea Pig a customer returned that was housed alone and how sad and awful the little guy seemed. Luckily the book told me one true fact which is, that two males can't be housed together so I aimed on getting two females.
Early December beautiful leatherback Cawley redX Hypo tangerine Gaz came into my life. I had gotten her from what I assumed to be the best reptile place in the city and as a bonus they were the only supplier of Daichu Dragons in all of Canada. Knowing what I do now I would have asked them some hard questions about why their Beardies were the way they were. Gaz was 4 1/2 months and roughly 8 inches with a shed constriction on her tail and she was missing part of her claw. I thought was even big for her age back then (now I just feel flipping stupid!) because she was the biggest and brightest out of all her siblings.
I joined the board when Gaz was experiencing relocation stress (something the books never told me about!) and I was freaking out badly. Once I started reading the careguides I was amazed by how wrong the books were! As time went by I forgot to tell my boyfriend all the new info I had been extracting from the careguides here at the board. I think I was just so smitten with new lizard-mommyhood that I didn’t even consider the fact that he might be looking at buying me another Beardie.
I came home December 23 to find another Beardie in the tank with Gaz. My boyfriend looked especially pleased with himself and then very puzzled when I demanded the receipt so I could return the new Beardie. It turns out that my boyfriend had thrown the receipt away because he couldn’t fathom me not wanting another Beardie..afterall, I had said that it was absolutely necessary to have another Beardie in order to have happy long living Beardies. I do love seeing them talk to each other and seeing them curl up and sleep together (even though Dante has his own separate little house in the tank to sleep in he chooses to be with Gaz)…but the size, age difference and sex difference made/makes me damn nervous…and its only a 40 gallon reptile tank.
Bad went to worse when three days later I picked up the new Beardie that I had named Dante (yes as in the Divine Comedy I figured it was a unisex enough name ) and discovered that it was a male. I almost started crying right there because I knew there was no way I could afford to get a completely new tank seeing as getting everything for Gaz had cost me an arm and a leg and I was (still am) in school and working part-time along with the living expenses of recently moving out and living with my boyfriend. Gaz was already costing me almost $30/week in crickets and that’s with my employee discount!
So here I am stuck with two Beardies that are both undersized for their age with Gaz measuring just over ten inches@ five months and Dante measuring 8 inches @ what is assumed to be 2-3 months of age. Dante has trouble catching crickets and often misses but I will try putting crickets in the fridge for a few secs like you guys suggested. Gaz is blissfully unaware of her large size (compared to Dante) and I sometimes come home to find her almost pushing Dante off the basking spot (I have two set up but for some reason they only bask together not separately). I have discussed selling Dante or giving him up for free to a good home but it really hurts my boyfriend’s feelings and to be honest I’ve started to become rather attached to little Dante and all his quirks. The soonest I can afford a full new 40 gallon tank with lights and all the rest is probably May. So everyone…I need your advice on what I should do to try to give them the best life possible together for the few months that they have to be housed together. I need all your help and all your suggestions…seriously anything! The worst case scenario (if money gets more tight for me than it already is) is them being housed together till September since I have decided upon taking one with me when I go away to Vet school.
I have been posting here and there random little questions and what-not as I am a new Beardie owner. I decided I would address the topic that I have been putting off addressing because this one makes me feel like a really bad Beardie owner. But first I have to give some background so this all makes sense to everyone as to why I am stuck in this particularly bad situation. This is a extremely long post but I can’t think of any other way to explain how it got to this.
Before I discovered the amazing careguides and helpful knowledgeable people on this board I only had the books my store sold about Beardies to go on and some very misinforming websites. Looking back I see how outdated and just generally craptastic these books were but at the time I considered them my bible. One book even said that it was best to get two beardies it said something of the likes of "beardies show social deprivation if housed alone many will try to communicate with their owners with behaviours such as head bobbing and arm waving". I thought that was awful sad and thought to myself "they must be like Guniea Pigs then, they do poorly and get socially deprived when housed alone". During the two months I spent basically memorizing these stupid books I was buying slowly stockpiling stuff for the new Beardies I planned to buy and sharing everything I was learning with my boyfriend. I told him we just HAD TO HAVE TWO BEARDIES; I kept getting flashbacks of this Guniea Pig a customer returned that was housed alone and how sad and awful the little guy seemed. Luckily the book told me one true fact which is, that two males can't be housed together so I aimed on getting two females.
Early December beautiful leatherback Cawley redX Hypo tangerine Gaz came into my life. I had gotten her from what I assumed to be the best reptile place in the city and as a bonus they were the only supplier of Daichu Dragons in all of Canada. Knowing what I do now I would have asked them some hard questions about why their Beardies were the way they were. Gaz was 4 1/2 months and roughly 8 inches with a shed constriction on her tail and she was missing part of her claw. I thought was even big for her age back then (now I just feel flipping stupid!) because she was the biggest and brightest out of all her siblings.
I joined the board when Gaz was experiencing relocation stress (something the books never told me about!) and I was freaking out badly. Once I started reading the careguides I was amazed by how wrong the books were! As time went by I forgot to tell my boyfriend all the new info I had been extracting from the careguides here at the board. I think I was just so smitten with new lizard-mommyhood that I didn’t even consider the fact that he might be looking at buying me another Beardie.
I came home December 23 to find another Beardie in the tank with Gaz. My boyfriend looked especially pleased with himself and then very puzzled when I demanded the receipt so I could return the new Beardie. It turns out that my boyfriend had thrown the receipt away because he couldn’t fathom me not wanting another Beardie..afterall, I had said that it was absolutely necessary to have another Beardie in order to have happy long living Beardies. I do love seeing them talk to each other and seeing them curl up and sleep together (even though Dante has his own separate little house in the tank to sleep in he chooses to be with Gaz)…but the size, age difference and sex difference made/makes me damn nervous…and its only a 40 gallon reptile tank.
Bad went to worse when three days later I picked up the new Beardie that I had named Dante (yes as in the Divine Comedy I figured it was a unisex enough name ) and discovered that it was a male. I almost started crying right there because I knew there was no way I could afford to get a completely new tank seeing as getting everything for Gaz had cost me an arm and a leg and I was (still am) in school and working part-time along with the living expenses of recently moving out and living with my boyfriend. Gaz was already costing me almost $30/week in crickets and that’s with my employee discount!
So here I am stuck with two Beardies that are both undersized for their age with Gaz measuring just over ten inches@ five months and Dante measuring 8 inches @ what is assumed to be 2-3 months of age. Dante has trouble catching crickets and often misses but I will try putting crickets in the fridge for a few secs like you guys suggested. Gaz is blissfully unaware of her large size (compared to Dante) and I sometimes come home to find her almost pushing Dante off the basking spot (I have two set up but for some reason they only bask together not separately). I have discussed selling Dante or giving him up for free to a good home but it really hurts my boyfriend’s feelings and to be honest I’ve started to become rather attached to little Dante and all his quirks. The soonest I can afford a full new 40 gallon tank with lights and all the rest is probably May. So everyone…I need your advice on what I should do to try to give them the best life possible together for the few months that they have to be housed together. I need all your help and all your suggestions…seriously anything! The worst case scenario (if money gets more tight for me than it already is) is them being housed together till September since I have decided upon taking one with me when I go away to Vet school.