KairaandTaz08
Juvie Member
Ok, sorry for this post, but it's so frustrating when you try to offer simple suggestions, nicely and get a "slap in the face" for your suggestions.
I am always nice about my posts! I try to help and openly admit when I do not know exactly what to do, tell them who to ask, or give the basic knowledge to people!!!!!!!!! I'm not talking about new owners, either. I mean owners who have "experience" and are asking for help. I ALWAYS offer my advice in a non-attacking manner, anyways.
I know certain things are viewed differently by everyone, but I think we can all agree on the correct UVB, heating/lighting, dangerous veggies and feeders, and basic care. AND I don't mind if they have a different opinion, I just let them know what I, personally, would or would not do.
I'm tired of some posters seeing that I have a 6 month old beardie and a 4 month old beardie and assuming I have absolutely no experience. I have been through so much with my two already and have done so much research, asked for so much help, have received so much knowledge (though, if I don't know something, I TELL the poster that I DON'T KNOW FOR SURE SO WAIT UNTIL SOMEBODY WHO DOES KNOW for sure confirms what I say). It's frustrating to be seen as unexperienced after spending hours going through posts, "bumping" them up, PMing somebody who can offer advice. I've even gone as far as searching for answers (spending my own time, that I could be doing something and not trying to help) all over the site and internet to confirm what I say.
Just had to get that out, whew!
Sorry again, but it gets to the point where I get so frustrated when someone "experienced" feels the need to say that they "wanted advice from someone who had experience with such and such situation" (which BTW, I did have experience with that particular situation ) or something similar to that, that I just about get tired of offering advice, when there are so many that truly need and want the help! So, please, if you have "experience" and are not open to ANY other opinions than your own, be nice about it or say you've worked with beardies for years, but just don't know about this particular thing.
Abi
I am always nice about my posts! I try to help and openly admit when I do not know exactly what to do, tell them who to ask, or give the basic knowledge to people!!!!!!!!! I'm not talking about new owners, either. I mean owners who have "experience" and are asking for help. I ALWAYS offer my advice in a non-attacking manner, anyways.
I know certain things are viewed differently by everyone, but I think we can all agree on the correct UVB, heating/lighting, dangerous veggies and feeders, and basic care. AND I don't mind if they have a different opinion, I just let them know what I, personally, would or would not do.
I'm tired of some posters seeing that I have a 6 month old beardie and a 4 month old beardie and assuming I have absolutely no experience. I have been through so much with my two already and have done so much research, asked for so much help, have received so much knowledge (though, if I don't know something, I TELL the poster that I DON'T KNOW FOR SURE SO WAIT UNTIL SOMEBODY WHO DOES KNOW for sure confirms what I say). It's frustrating to be seen as unexperienced after spending hours going through posts, "bumping" them up, PMing somebody who can offer advice. I've even gone as far as searching for answers (spending my own time, that I could be doing something and not trying to help) all over the site and internet to confirm what I say.
Just had to get that out, whew!
Sorry again, but it gets to the point where I get so frustrated when someone "experienced" feels the need to say that they "wanted advice from someone who had experience with such and such situation" (which BTW, I did have experience with that particular situation ) or something similar to that, that I just about get tired of offering advice, when there are so many that truly need and want the help! So, please, if you have "experience" and are not open to ANY other opinions than your own, be nice about it or say you've worked with beardies for years, but just don't know about this particular thing.
Abi