Hey Holly-
Everything you read sounds great. My Lilly, who is about 2 weeks older than Sunshine usually gets fed twice a day. There are some days when I honestly cannot get a second feeding in, but I try to every day. Often she only wants 10 or so crickets in the morning, but will eat another 10-20 at night. I really don't know when to switch them off two feedings a day, but I want Lilly to eat at least 20 crix because I've heard people say 20-30 is a good number. Have you measured to see if she's grown since you got her? Lilly has grown 1/2" in less than 2 weeks; if she isn't growing much, she may not be getting enough protein. Oh and we have one beardie who is a very deep sleeper, but Lilly wakes up for everything. I don't leave crix in her viv, I get them out as soon as Lilly's done eating.
Just some thoughts-
Sara