Helping with Moving Stress?

[Cerko]

Hey all!

I recently moved my girl from my apartment to my boyfriend's, and she's been (expectedly) stressed since. Constants black beard and stress marks BUT she's been much more active than she was at my place. Constantly moving around, drinking from her water dish daily (which she rarely does), climbing on top of her plants.

I'm wondering how long is to long in terms of stress, and what I can do to help her with it. She's been here for 3 days and hasn't been handled, tank set up is identical aside from two sides being blocked out to try and prevent more stress. Her new tank location is lower, so perhaps us towering over her isn't helping? It's also much louder here with nearby traffic. She didn't have an appetite before moving here, so unsurprisingly that is still lacking as well (she'll stick out her tongue to grab at food, but won't actually take it in so I've been force feeding her up until moving)

Tank set up meets all specifications listed on the forum aside from size; she's in a small 20 gallon until we finish construction on her larger custom enclosure.

Thanks in advance for any help!

 

[Cerko]

Bump!

TLDR - Wondering how long a dragon should be stressed from moving; going on 4 days of constant black beard and aggression.

 

[AHBD]

Hi there....are you positive of the gender ? It would be normal for a young male to get feisty this time of year as it's the breeding season. For a female of course it would show agitation . Has she been digging at all ?

 

[Cerko]

Hi there....are you positive of the gender ? It would be normal for a young male to get feisty this time of year as it's the breeding season. For a female of course it would show agitation . Has she been digging at all ?

I'm not positive of gender, vet said he thought she was female but he couldn't be sure. I can post a picture of her (his?) underside if that would help? I checked myself and didn't see the two lumps to indicate she is a he, but I could be wrong. It would certainly put me at ease if it was just hormones!

She has not been digging at all, but she has been very active since the move.

 

[Cerko]

Here's a picture of her underside. Last time the vet and myself checked gender was about a month ago, though now I think I see the hemipenal bulges...

Second opinion? :?

 

[AHBD]

Looks male to me as well. If you arched it a little higher you'd probably get more definition of the bulges. But I think it's a boy.

 

[Cerko]

Checked one more time with a flashlight and, indeed, she is a he.

Not looking forward to months of grump but happy to know HE is okay