Hi Lori, yes it wouldn't be good to be a grandma, but I don't know if Rubio would know what to do. He had a chance to pounce on Sweetie a couple of years ago and instead, he looked back at me "what am I supposed to do now, mom?" Needless to say I forgot Sweetie was out when I had Rubio on my lap, so that gave me a minute to grab her up and put her to bed. And he never got another chance :lol: But it would be nice for you to meet him, he's so big, it surprises people. My friend Joanne came to visit last weekend and her eyes practically popped out when she saw Rubio, as he's not fat so really doesn't look as big as he is in person. When I hold him, he goes from my shoulder and his tail end up past my waist!