hand feeding them helps them learn that human hands are good things -- it sounds like his aggression may be coming from fear -- suddenly he's really awake and confronted by a giant -- figure how much bigger you are and imagine something you don't trust and that much bigger than you trying to pat you -- when ours was little, before we ever pet him or carried him around, we let him climb on us when he chose to [we'd put him on the dining room table and one of us would stand guard while the other sat there, put her head down and pretended to be asleep].
athena