LOL! Not lAughing at you, it's just you sound like me a little while ago.
Okay, so I had been stalking this beardie at the pet store. It's a certain thing I go through when I am about to get a new one I guess, lol. I can't make up my mind whether or not to do it so I keep going back to check on them every week or so until I finally break down and do it. Anyways, so I finally got him. He was so cute. I got him home, and the next day, omg!
He was soooo bad! I have had many lizards but he was just downright evil!
Every time I woul get him out of his talk he would his and open his mouth all the way, and his whole motive would be to bite me. He was really fast and very successful at it too. Getting bit by him became a almost daily occurance. I named him Demon (the devil lizard!). It's funny now but it wasn't then. I even want to return him to the pet store at one point! My friend who was really experienced with them kept saying its just a phase, it will pass, but I kind of hated him for a while.
Well the biting got less and less, and he started not opening his mouth, and then he became good!
He now is the best behaved lizard I have, and have ever had, honest!!
Sometimes I don't even believe it. He is so calm and laid back.
Anyways, moral of the story: they can be feisty for a minute, but don't give up.
With Demon it took a lot of handling, talking to him calmly, and letting him explore.
Firstly, I would be as calm as possible when you get them out. Don't reach in fast or talk loud right now. If they try to run, gently kind of place your hand around the body so they feel snug, not squeezed. Is he really small? If only a bit smaller, you may want to let him get away, but not far. I have a lizard room. An office that we keep really clean without many hiding places. I can put them down on this rock that's in there with a heat lamp and just keep an eye on them while on the computer. It helps them get used to be outside their tank without freaking out, because it's always the same. I try not and bother them, just let them explore and mess around. If your really worried about them getting away you can take them out and hold them/fees them over a sterelite container (large) or even a laundry basket, that way if they get away they can't get far.
Sometimes they are really feisty when they are young, but it will pass.
Hope this helps.