Hi there! Sorry you're struggling...we all go through this temp game. First, what are you using for a basking bulb? Household? Flood? Halogen?
I'd start by using the correct thermometer. You can purchase a digital indoor/outdoor Accurite thermometer from Walmart for $12. It has a probe on the end and gives high and low readings of both temps and humidity. The probe must sit ON the spot for 45 minutes to 1 hour for an accurate reading.
Temp guns are wonderful for testing the basking spot but must be held 2 inches away for accuracy.
The easiest way is to get a reliable, accurate thermometer and start trying new bulbs. See what works best.
In my 40g breeder I use a 72w household bulb connected to a dimmer
Makes life a bit easier.
Good luck and keep us posted!