Ryanater":3lbe8v0h said:
JessPets":3lbe8v0h said:
First off, KUDOS and thank you for not just going out and buying one. BUT, there are A LOT of things to consider. I got my beardie at the same age as you are now, and man it is hard. Besides $35+ a month for food, I am about to drop $50 on a new UV. I can't stay over at friends' houses or go to parties/social events (not that I'm a super social person lol), because Loki (my beardie) needs his lights on/off at a certain time, needs to be fed and picked up after, etc etc. I would recommend going to a reptile shop and maybe spending some time with them (that's what I did). Save up $300-500 dollars, get a nice big tank, lights, heat, substrate, etc, and you should be fine. Just remember, they are NOT easy to care for and this commitment should not be taken lightly! I have 10 other pets, and Loki costs more than ALL of them put together!
I'm aware of the costs and you could just get a timer for the lights to turn off so u can go out and feed him before u go or someone else can.
At 13 yrs old .... probably a bridge too far , there are 13 yr old who become very good beardie keepers and are very diligent about making sure their pet beardie is cared for properly EVERY DAY.
Keep in mind you will likely be very much into dating and social stuff over the next 5 - 8 years and the cuteness and novelty of a cool new pet beardie will soon wear off. Will mom and / or dad be willing to take up the slack ?
(as so often happens with teens when school gets more demanding , and they have peer pressure as well to be popular and successful socially).
I am getting a timer soon, so that'll be a plus. But the original timer I got failed, so I have to get a new one. Since my beardie is my responsibility, that means I need to be the one to feed him and clean out his cage. Now I will be gone for a week off to camp next month, but all of his food will be set aside in daily proportions for my parents to dump in his bowl each morning and afternoon while gone, but I know as a pet owner that caring for them is my job, and something I need to commit to.
While having someone else care for him/her is fine every once in a while, caring for your beardie should mainly be your job, as he/she will be your pet. If you go out a lot, or are busy a lot, a bearded dragon might not be the pet for you. And you also pointed out that your beardie could be alive when you are in college - this is a HUGE thing. Chances are, if you chose to stay in a dorm, they won't allow pets, so you'll either need to rent an apartment near your school, or leave him at home in your parents or friends care. Please do not get one if you think you might have to rehome him in just a few years when you go off to college.
For me, I know that I'll have to go to a local college, as my animals need me. Besides my beardie, I have 10 other pets - all under my care, so I need to be there for them. Rehoming (for me at least) should always be a last resort, as it is honestly unfair to the animal, as they have no say in the matter. Just my 2¢