I think your friend is being very over the top! If you were trying to keep a crocodile in a jam jar then yes its not fair.... but does your beardie look unhappy? Animals are very easily contented. Spike sits on his log most of the day, sprawled out in the hot "sun", getting fed locusts at regular intervals, having a good run about every day and the odd bath. I reckon he's got it quite good.... i'm the one who has to go out in the freezing cold to go to work everyday! If I had his life, i'd be laughing!! Tell her to mind her own business. The only people that shouldn't own beardies or any pets are the ones that can't look after them. Any animals I have I want them to have the best possible life they can, and as long as I own them, that is what they will get!