leneabean
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Hi everyone. I'm extremely new to this. My boyfriend loves reptiles and when a distant family member wanted to get rid of their bearded dragon because they did not want it anymore, he was more than happy to let him into our home. His previous owners did feed him but they didn't handle him or bathe him. Well, when he was brought here I was pretty much indifferent. All I knew is he would scratch the living hell out of my boyfriend every time he tried to take him out of his tank. Luckily, he's not a biter. He's 4 years old but basically he's very new to us.
Anyways, I held him for the first time just 4/5 days ago and when my boyfriend put him on my lap, he calmed down after a while and eventually fell asleep there. I thought it was so sweet and thought about his neglect and started crying in front of all of our friends haha. Anyways, since then I have become incredibly attached to him. I get him out of his tank every afternoon to feed him squash and collard greens. I'm not comfortable hand feeding him yet as he's still aggressive there but I put him on my lap and place the food on my leg and he eats it off me.
Also, every night a few hours before I know he likes to sleep, I let him lay on my chest and he usually crawls up to my neck and falls asleep then I put a soft blanket over the two of us. The past two nights, when I move him from my chest to his viv he doesn't even wake up. I don't know if this is common or because he's used to me, but I love him so much so quickly. He doesn't freak out when I pick him up out of his tank. He's calm and I just put him on my chest. He clings to me sometimes when I put him back into his tank after he eats but he has to go in to digest and do this thing. I keep a shirt of mine in his tank on the cool side and he usually sleeps on it.
I think I'm getting ahead of myself thinking we've bonded already, but I'm just so excited. As far as feeding and heating and stuff like that, I know my stuff because like I said my boyfriend is basically a reptile expert. I tried to give him his first bath in the sink but he was freaking out even though the water was extremely shallow. My boyfriend tried to take him out but he was scratching him bad but he was okay when I lifted him a bit and used my hands to pour water on him then took him out, put him on a towel, then patted him dry. I read that they can prefer one owner over another, but I don't know if that's true.
Basically I'm posting this because I don't know if I'm getting ahead of myself and I also am looking for some bonding tips, extra care tips, and definitely some bathing tips!!! The weather is getting nice here soon and I want to get a harness and take him outside, but I don't want to give him too much at once! Anyways, here's a picture of him falling asleep on me before bed:
Anyways, I held him for the first time just 4/5 days ago and when my boyfriend put him on my lap, he calmed down after a while and eventually fell asleep there. I thought it was so sweet and thought about his neglect and started crying in front of all of our friends haha. Anyways, since then I have become incredibly attached to him. I get him out of his tank every afternoon to feed him squash and collard greens. I'm not comfortable hand feeding him yet as he's still aggressive there but I put him on my lap and place the food on my leg and he eats it off me.
Also, every night a few hours before I know he likes to sleep, I let him lay on my chest and he usually crawls up to my neck and falls asleep then I put a soft blanket over the two of us. The past two nights, when I move him from my chest to his viv he doesn't even wake up. I don't know if this is common or because he's used to me, but I love him so much so quickly. He doesn't freak out when I pick him up out of his tank. He's calm and I just put him on my chest. He clings to me sometimes when I put him back into his tank after he eats but he has to go in to digest and do this thing. I keep a shirt of mine in his tank on the cool side and he usually sleeps on it.
I think I'm getting ahead of myself thinking we've bonded already, but I'm just so excited. As far as feeding and heating and stuff like that, I know my stuff because like I said my boyfriend is basically a reptile expert. I tried to give him his first bath in the sink but he was freaking out even though the water was extremely shallow. My boyfriend tried to take him out but he was scratching him bad but he was okay when I lifted him a bit and used my hands to pour water on him then took him out, put him on a towel, then patted him dry. I read that they can prefer one owner over another, but I don't know if that's true.
Basically I'm posting this because I don't know if I'm getting ahead of myself and I also am looking for some bonding tips, extra care tips, and definitely some bathing tips!!! The weather is getting nice here soon and I want to get a harness and take him outside, but I don't want to give him too much at once! Anyways, here's a picture of him falling asleep on me before bed: