my male Buddie is around 6months old/20in long and my female is just over 4 months old/15in long. There cages are 10ft across from each other and I know they see each other :shock: He has been head bobbing her for the whole 2 months i had her. I held them both in my hands multiple times together and they would either lick each other or he would black beard and head bob. I also had both of them on my bed together twice and it seemed like they were both scared to move but today was a different story. I had Buddie walking around my bed so i decided to bring out Baby Girl. He started head bobbing right away with the biggest black beard ever. Then he charged her, I grabbed him real quick before he got to her. But he was still trying to get to her while i was holding her. Im not sure if he wanted to mate or attack her. I know they are not old enough to mate and its not good to house them where they can see each other but i have no other choice right now.