Okay I have about a year and half old bearded dragon I'm 99% positive it's a he i got it when he was about 9 months olds and held him almost everyday but slowly stopped holding him idk why but I just did seeing I'm only 15 I was kinda creeped out by it but anyways I have a class and we hve a baby and I love hold him and want to hold mine now but everytime I put my ham in the cage he stares it down and sometimes puffs up and his beard gets black bout a week ago I picked him up and he puffed up and seamed like he dident like it so I put him down. Any suggestions on getting him tame and friendly?