If it is warm weather, it is better to have them request to have the package held at the post office. If they do bring it to your doorstep, they can be stuck in a hot mail truck all day before they get to your house and they don't do well in heat. I know I read somewhere that someone didn't get theirs held at the post office and they were all dead when they got them. I had my phoenix worms held and they were all alive. The other thing is that the post office doesn't always read the label that says to hold for pickup so it is a good idea to keep track of the tracking number and as soon as it shows it is at your local post office, call them and confirm it will be held for pickup. I do believe it is up to you though...if you want the order held, they give you a comment box to write in that says so.