Hi everyone,
I used to be a member on this forum bit couldn't remember my username/email to save my life, so I have created a new one. Everyone here was fantastic when I got my 2 beardies back in 2009 and I really appreciated all the advice I received through my first couple of years of being a new beardie owner!
My 2 beardies are now 13 (brother and sister) and I'm pretty sure my girl is dying and I'm not sure how much to intervene.
I found what felt like a fairly large tumor in her abdomen a few weeks ago + significant weight loss (sunken fat pads and other signs of losing weight). Her weight is likely "normal" by number just feeling how heavy she feels but I'm pretty sure it is due to whatever is in her abdomen.
At the time I really started noticing this, I opted to not take her to the vet as she was still acting relatively normal, eating, drinking, pooping (good poops at that hence why I was confident not an obstruction/impaction along with the fact what I felt in her abdomen had defined edges and was movable like a tumor). She showed no signs of pain as far as no stress marks, black beard, lethargic, etc.
I had no intention of putting her through treatment anyway at her age knowing she wouldn't survive chemo or surgery or anything aggressive at 13, so my plan was to keep a close eye on her and take her to the vet as soon as she showed signs of being uncomfortable or in pain. She is established with a vet and had a clean check up in October 2021.
Well Friday night something happened and I don't know what. She went from looking perfectly fine to eyes closed and what appeared to be gasping under her heat light. I pulled her out and she was HOT. Like way hotter than I have ever felt her or her brother be. Nothing has changed with their tank set up or ambient temp in years and she was laying on the tile on the bottom so I'm not sure how she got as hot as she did. She was also extremely pale, which wasn't surprising considering how hot she was.
I managed to get her to cool off slowly at room temp, she stopped what looked like gasping, and was breathing easier although still fairly limp and eyes closed. I put her back in her tank after a few hours and prepared for the worst overnight.
To my surprise yesterday morning she was holding her head up, eyes opened, looking around, improved color, although she hadn't moved from her spot. I was able to get some water in her yesterday and some watermelon juice mixed with water and that seemed to help slightly to where she again was holding her head up, opening her eyes, looking around, although still not moving otherwise.
Same thing so far today... she had her head up, eyes open, looking around this morning (and even as I write this she is looking at me). She still hasn't attempted to move otherwise though. She has feeling in her feet and legs and can move them some when I pinched her toes a bit to see if she had feeling and I know she can see and hear based on how she has reacted to me moving around/talking to her.
She is just very lethargic and tired though. She is breathing easy and no signs of struggling to breathe or in pain (color is so-so but more pale than dark, no black beard, no stress marks). She is on a blanket on the cooler side of her tank so she doesn't overheat again... it is 78 in the room she is in, so I'm not worried about her getting too cool.
I did manage to get some sweet potato and banana baby food in her along with a little water about 2 hours ago although it involved syringe feeding her. I cant get her to a vet until Tuesday at the earliest (the emergency vet here only does cats and dogs and her vet refers out to a city over 2 hours away weekends and holidays) although I have a back-up plan with a non-exotic vet I know that I would reach out to if things got really bad before then although I'm not sure they would be willing to help.
So my question is in the meantime am I doing the right thing by trying to get food/fluid into her? Am I doing more harm than good? I just don't want to fully give up on her yet since it seems like she hasn't fully given up either although I also realize it won't be much longer either before she dies or needs to be put down. I appreciate anyone's insights and thoughts.
I used to be a member on this forum bit couldn't remember my username/email to save my life, so I have created a new one. Everyone here was fantastic when I got my 2 beardies back in 2009 and I really appreciated all the advice I received through my first couple of years of being a new beardie owner!
My 2 beardies are now 13 (brother and sister) and I'm pretty sure my girl is dying and I'm not sure how much to intervene.
I found what felt like a fairly large tumor in her abdomen a few weeks ago + significant weight loss (sunken fat pads and other signs of losing weight). Her weight is likely "normal" by number just feeling how heavy she feels but I'm pretty sure it is due to whatever is in her abdomen.
At the time I really started noticing this, I opted to not take her to the vet as she was still acting relatively normal, eating, drinking, pooping (good poops at that hence why I was confident not an obstruction/impaction along with the fact what I felt in her abdomen had defined edges and was movable like a tumor). She showed no signs of pain as far as no stress marks, black beard, lethargic, etc.
I had no intention of putting her through treatment anyway at her age knowing she wouldn't survive chemo or surgery or anything aggressive at 13, so my plan was to keep a close eye on her and take her to the vet as soon as she showed signs of being uncomfortable or in pain. She is established with a vet and had a clean check up in October 2021.
Well Friday night something happened and I don't know what. She went from looking perfectly fine to eyes closed and what appeared to be gasping under her heat light. I pulled her out and she was HOT. Like way hotter than I have ever felt her or her brother be. Nothing has changed with their tank set up or ambient temp in years and she was laying on the tile on the bottom so I'm not sure how she got as hot as she did. She was also extremely pale, which wasn't surprising considering how hot she was.
I managed to get her to cool off slowly at room temp, she stopped what looked like gasping, and was breathing easier although still fairly limp and eyes closed. I put her back in her tank after a few hours and prepared for the worst overnight.
To my surprise yesterday morning she was holding her head up, eyes opened, looking around, improved color, although she hadn't moved from her spot. I was able to get some water in her yesterday and some watermelon juice mixed with water and that seemed to help slightly to where she again was holding her head up, opening her eyes, looking around, although still not moving otherwise.
Same thing so far today... she had her head up, eyes open, looking around this morning (and even as I write this she is looking at me). She still hasn't attempted to move otherwise though. She has feeling in her feet and legs and can move them some when I pinched her toes a bit to see if she had feeling and I know she can see and hear based on how she has reacted to me moving around/talking to her.
She is just very lethargic and tired though. She is breathing easy and no signs of struggling to breathe or in pain (color is so-so but more pale than dark, no black beard, no stress marks). She is on a blanket on the cooler side of her tank so she doesn't overheat again... it is 78 in the room she is in, so I'm not worried about her getting too cool.
I did manage to get some sweet potato and banana baby food in her along with a little water about 2 hours ago although it involved syringe feeding her. I cant get her to a vet until Tuesday at the earliest (the emergency vet here only does cats and dogs and her vet refers out to a city over 2 hours away weekends and holidays) although I have a back-up plan with a non-exotic vet I know that I would reach out to if things got really bad before then although I'm not sure they would be willing to help.
So my question is in the meantime am I doing the right thing by trying to get food/fluid into her? Am I doing more harm than good? I just don't want to fully give up on her yet since it seems like she hasn't fully given up either although I also realize it won't be much longer either before she dies or needs to be put down. I appreciate anyone's insights and thoughts.