So I've been wondering how to phrase this for awhile and hoping someone else can relate. My boyfriend and I have two beardies, Chomper, who is two years old and Sobek who is just hitting one year. We have had them both since they were young. I love these two with all my heart.
Chomper was our first and we absolutely pampered him. He is a pretty big boy, close to 700g and 19.5" long. He is very very affectionate. Sobek is much, much more difficult. He has always been really picky about food. Has only had a few worms, every few days, since he was probably 6 months old. Unlike Chomper, who has an incredible appetite. They both see the vet every 6 months and get yearly bloodwork, with everything being okay. Sobek did have an incident when he was young where he almost choked on a raspberry. It scared us a LOT, and we tried to gently pry his mouth open. Now that he's older I notice a missing tooth (?????) and don't know if it has to do with that, or something else? Maybe the vet checking his mouth? He has had his bloodwork done so he isn't suffering from MBD or anything like that..
ANyway, Sobek is a bit smaller, probably 480g or so. He's not "skinny" by any means and he has a little belly and fat arms and a fat tail, but he seems so much more... I don't know, unhappy? That sounds weird but he doesn't seem to trust us as much or be as 'content' though I see no signs of distress. Neither of them poop more than once or twice a week (and haven't for a long time), despite eating salad regularly and having good temps and everything.
I just feel guilty.. for not spending as much time with them, or something, and I constantly worry that I'm not doing enough! We get really busy and don't get the time to take them out daily. Does anyone else ever feel this way? I also feel bad for sometimes wishing we hadn't gotten another beardie (not that I necessarily regret it) because they can't stand each other and taking one out is a huge production, involving going into the other room/covering up the other one's tank for a bit and hoping they don't see each other. I just feel like I'm not doing enough for them and don't know to cope with feeling so guilty.
Sobek:
Chomper:
Chomper was our first and we absolutely pampered him. He is a pretty big boy, close to 700g and 19.5" long. He is very very affectionate. Sobek is much, much more difficult. He has always been really picky about food. Has only had a few worms, every few days, since he was probably 6 months old. Unlike Chomper, who has an incredible appetite. They both see the vet every 6 months and get yearly bloodwork, with everything being okay. Sobek did have an incident when he was young where he almost choked on a raspberry. It scared us a LOT, and we tried to gently pry his mouth open. Now that he's older I notice a missing tooth (?????) and don't know if it has to do with that, or something else? Maybe the vet checking his mouth? He has had his bloodwork done so he isn't suffering from MBD or anything like that..
ANyway, Sobek is a bit smaller, probably 480g or so. He's not "skinny" by any means and he has a little belly and fat arms and a fat tail, but he seems so much more... I don't know, unhappy? That sounds weird but he doesn't seem to trust us as much or be as 'content' though I see no signs of distress. Neither of them poop more than once or twice a week (and haven't for a long time), despite eating salad regularly and having good temps and everything.
I just feel guilty.. for not spending as much time with them, or something, and I constantly worry that I'm not doing enough! We get really busy and don't get the time to take them out daily. Does anyone else ever feel this way? I also feel bad for sometimes wishing we hadn't gotten another beardie (not that I necessarily regret it) because they can't stand each other and taking one out is a huge production, involving going into the other room/covering up the other one's tank for a bit and hoping they don't see each other. I just feel like I'm not doing enough for them and don't know to cope with feeling so guilty.
Sobek:
Chomper: