So I just came home with a new addition to the family, a 3 year old male and my female is almost 4. They are in 2 different tanks on opposite walls in my bedroom. The male is digging and rubbing his nose up and down on the glass. My female on the other hand is going crazy, trying to scratch the glass, going up and down the side of the tank and scratching her basking platform.. I held her up to his tank and they don't really do much other than lick the glass and she tries to climb out of my hand.. What does this mean? Do they want to kill eachother? Or is this common actions of new partners?