Oh, I'm so glad to hear that and am so sorry that I got lippy with my last post. I did take it the wrong way in a sense.
I completely understand, we all learn from one another and I haven't experienced everything or read everything out there. I think a lot of times communicating via internet that wording can be chosen to make it sound as if we are being rude. There's no "tone" involved. I think in my case, it may have seemed like I was saying you HAVE to do this or that, which is not what I meant whatsoever. I know that I stated things in a way that sounded like "I knew it all.", which is definitely not the case. I get in a hurry at times, want to help, but don't take the time to make sure that everything I type is coming across as "helpful", so it sounds more so like I'm telling someone what the have to do, can't do, etc.
It truly is the only way we can learn from each other, share experiences, and help one another. I post questions about my two babies a lot. Especially because they have had parasites (Taz still does) and Kaira has had a lot of digestive issues and I should have said that I've gone through this with her too, before everything else.
And there are just those highly debated things...substrate, mealworms I think were a big one here (sorry about that, that’s a personal decision), etc.
I’m glad that some of what I said was useful, but I apologize for responding the way I did. :?
Abi