I agree with most of what you said but, mental problems stretch WORLDWIDE.DorgEndo":33n12ypp said:Assuming it was an abandonment case I think this stems from people refusing to ask for help or admit they are overwhelmed in some way and need to simplify their life. People seem to go to great lengths to avoid admitting they need help. They delude themselves into thinking their poor action is okay because it's just a one time thing. That is getting into a whole separate issue about mental health (and the lack of) in the USA.