I don't know if this will help, but when I first rescued my Gem, she hated me. She would hiss and puff up and scurry away, even though it must have caused her a great deal of pain to do so (she had VERY severe MBD and couldn't hold herself up). What I did was wrap her in a towel so that only her head was sticking out, but very loosely, so she didn't feel trapped. It was like a security blanket-- two days after rescuing her, she was sitting on my lap wrapped in a towel. Soon afterward, the towel was no longer required, and today, she's the biggest snugglebug! :wink:
Just a suggestion. :mrgreen:
Jacqui