I've had my little guy for about 3 weeks and am having a hard time with handing him. The first week I didn't touch him, just talked to him and hand fed as much as possible. The following week I added in petting him. Now I try to take him out 10mins a day to say hi but he really wants to run! I want to be able to give him the baths he needs(which he hates) and hold him but it seems like hes scared. And his beard is never black btw. And suggestions? And the black markings on the side of his neck, do they mean anything?