Oh my, you're having so much fun together. This is the wonderful side of owning a dragon, nothing to do with anything but love, or so I call it. When an animal depends on you but also has fun with you, that is the ultimate. There is nothing better (will I guess your wife would be better :mrgreen: )
So my son has broken up with his wife and he's moved in for me for awhile. He'll sleep somewhere in the living room. He's out at 6a or so, I'm not even awake yet, he's independent, so makes his own supper and lunch (which is good because I don't have the time or energy to start either!)
We've talked alot because he's finally realized that he has a helper complex just like his mom and it's become toxic for he and his wife to live together, she is a complete control freak, has mental issues and can't stop causing fights. His son is now afraid of him because of her; she's caused him to be late for work or called him home for no reason (her mom is disabled and can come over instead) and just mental anguish, which in Eric's world means he's gets very angry, very quickly, because he can't control his temper when it's played with.
So he's fine with me, he's come back as Eric but older with alot of issues to fix up. He's not going back to her (at least he says so, but sometimes toxic sticks, I put up with it for 24 years with Roger). It's a day at a time and I'm not even sure how long he's allowed to stay because I live in a condominium/townhouse complex and it's dictated by strata bylaws, with visitors I mean). Anyway I left a message with my building manager to find out how I proceed to see if he can stay at least a month. We're getting along, no anger on his part because I know how to difuse anger. Plus we're actually talking with each other, not to each other. So I'll see how long I can help him. He is still paying for the 3 storey townhouse they rented last fall, car pmt, car ins, utlities and food/stuff for the kids and Tara. Then he sees how much there is left to rent a 2 bedroom apartment, so the 2 kids can have their own bedroom where Eric lives, as he'll have them as often as possible. So it's all up in the air, but at least I had food in the house for his lunch tomorrow and he's off getting foodstuffs for him for lunches and suppers this week. I have 3 boxes of cereal, so he's good there.
Wow, what a day, I got back from visiting Joanne at 3p and Eric called just a few minutes later and came over at 4p! He met Imp, who was out on the ramp (where else? :lol: ), he's always the last out.
I'll have to remember to tell Eric that Imp is out all day, so when he gets home to not worry, I'll put him to bed when I get home. So many things to think about when there are two of you. It's nice to be a Mom again...I've missed being a mom
We'll hope the good stuff continues and he finds help for his anger issues.
I'm actually glad it's over because she was always glad to get him going & haveing him lose his temper. They're just toxic together.
So that's the big news.
The kids are fine, Imp is now 406g from eating the mix for a week, he ate tons of it today and I"m find with him on it until I get the roaches in. I went out with Eric, forgetting about the roaches being delivered, plus she didn't give me a time or # to contact her, so was out when she came to deliver, so she'll come out next weekend.
So Imp will get his roaches next week. I don't mind feeding him mix every day.
Gabriel is still doing fine, he sleep as soon as he's in his tank, though, so I put him on a blanket where he will stay awake in his tank, at least a bit longer.
Nathaniel is still asleep, he had a
bath this am, stayed up until he was dry, then back he went. His light is off and his hide is covered.
Castiel is also in his hide, so I'll see if he shows up, he owes me a poop before he sleeps anyway and he's spent alot of nights lately in his hide (it's very hot outside).
And Cierra, I"m hoping, is not carrying any more eggs, I'm hoping she's done with that for the year. She's 496g which is a good weight for her, even though she finds it difficult to fit into her hide. But she's not getting a bigger one, she would fit if she thought about it. LOL She's only 46g higher in weight than last year when she brumated in August :roll: :lol: They're so spoiled & love to be spoiled. Their best personality comes out when they don't have to worry about survival but can enjoy life :love5: