Yeah, you guys need to calm down, and she'll calm down..They go through a typical "Relocation Stress" period where they are timid, shy, and sometimes don't eat much, and that can last up to 2 weeks. The key though is not avoiding her or not handling her, I've owner many Beardies, most all babies that were a month old when I got them, and I never once waited to hold them or interact with them...That being said, if you act nervous and scared, so will she.
The best thing you can do to bond with her is wait to get her out of the tank until nighttime, before bed, when it's already dark out. If you lay on the couch/bed and watch TV, read, etc. before bed, this is the time you get her out (leave her tank lights on while you have her out so her tank will be warm when you bring her back and put her to bed). Get a blanket and cover yourself up with it, place her right on you chest and put the blanket over her too. When it's already dark out and it's the end of the day they are tired and want to rest, and this is when they give in and will cuddle. Most of them just lay down and close their eyes as soon as you pull the blanket over them, and they keep warm from your body heat. Then gently rub/pet his head, back, ears, etc. while you lay there. She'll lay there and sleep with you for as long as you let her. If you do this every night for an hour she'll bond with you very quickly and learn to trust you, and you'll have no problem handling her at all..